tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post4949668442348841720..comments2024-03-15T02:13:34.645+13:00Comments on Mrs D Is Going Without: Winds of change….Mrs Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13110933370498728198noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-42920269584048609922014-12-26T07:31:13.996+13:002014-12-26T07:31:13.996+13:00hugs, you are lucky to of had someone so special i...hugs, you are lucky to of had someone so special in your lifeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-88087427895260005342014-12-20T18:04:30.170+13:002014-12-20T18:04:30.170+13:00If you drank through grief it doesn't mean you...If you drank through grief it doesn't mean you are not strong. It means you are not sober. There is a lot of grey area here, and I like to think we are all doing our best with where we are today.Chris Haugenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04643649306042989740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-77822939878867919812014-12-20T04:13:51.590+13:002014-12-20T04:13:51.590+13:00Of course I meant laugh at the good memories which...Of course I meant laugh at the good memories which you will surely do in time. Deepest condolences. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-29650853415370054082014-12-20T04:11:35.525+13:002014-12-20T04:11:35.525+13:00It is so hard to say goodbye to someone so dear to...It is so hard to say goodbye to someone so dear to our hearts. It sounds like he was a wonderful man. Let your feelings flow. It's OK to laugh and OK to cry and OK to do them minutes apart! Very sorry for your loss Mrs. D. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-91012582910154623022014-12-20T00:21:38.496+13:002014-12-20T00:21:38.496+13:00There are no rules and there is no easy path. Live...There are no rules and there is no easy path. Live that emotion, acknowledge the pain, the pain dulls but the sadness will always be with you. Know he is in a better place, that faith is what helps me.A longtime overduenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-42484187019754529262014-12-19T08:02:45.223+13:002014-12-19T08:02:45.223+13:00So so sorry for your loss, sending love, hugs and ...So so sorry for your loss, sending love, hugs and prayers to you and your family xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-30162927164029701252014-12-19T00:39:57.963+13:002014-12-19T00:39:57.963+13:00I am so sorry for your loss. I'm finding that ...I am so sorry for your loss. I'm finding that the hard times are the times when I'm most grateful for my sobriety. And I am grateful for you - you have been such an inspiration to me these past few months, and I know will continue to be. Practice good self-care and know you are loved by so many. Blessings.peppergrassnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-60139380006435736102014-12-19T00:21:20.435+13:002014-12-19T00:21:20.435+13:00Oh Lotta I'm so sorry to hear that and am thin...Oh Lotta I'm so sorry to hear that and am thinking of you and your family. Love and hugs from this side of the globe to you and yours xx Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-90393269317704396212014-12-18T12:57:09.255+13:002014-12-18T12:57:09.255+13:00Dear Mrs. D,
I am sorry. Having lost my dear fathe...Dear Mrs. D,<br />I am sorry. Having lost my dear father and mother-in-law, I understand. Know there are many people wishing you well.Untipsyteacherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14975521042875808241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-12759331758605913242014-12-18T11:19:37.699+13:002014-12-18T11:19:37.699+13:00Sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you. Sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you. Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13256683340058963105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-35862748898806995832014-12-18T10:43:59.005+13:002014-12-18T10:43:59.005+13:00So so sorry for your loss. I do believe that the b...So so sorry for your loss. I do believe that the best (even if it is the hardest) way to deal with grief is to grieve. There is no way around it. It will come and go in waves. Over time it will be easier. But it does take time. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-50921999950977692262014-12-18T10:14:49.645+13:002014-12-18T10:14:49.645+13:00sincerest condolences on the loss of your step fat...sincerest condolences on the loss of your step father. The best way to grieve is simply to grieve. Feel it and allow it out. Death is such a natural part of our life and being able to spend time with one who is facing it and being able to talk with them is a gift. And is does get easier, you never forget and memories come with sadness and joy. Through some experiences in my life with people who have now passed I know without a doubt deep in my heart that there is life past what we know. <br />take care and be kind to yourself and if you want or need to cry then just do it. So much love being sent to you.Breezi's Spirithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16455459388421177756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-6029912735540009292014-12-18T08:31:36.131+13:002014-12-18T08:31:36.131+13:00Mrs D, I am sorry for your loss. I think you'r...Mrs D, I am sorry for your loss. I think you're right about the grieving: there's no right way to do it. Staying raw will help you do what you need to do, whether that's cry or sing or be around people or get away from them. When my father died, I had to walk and walk in order to feel anything. It seemed strange, but doing it really helped. I'm not suggesting you should do that. I just mean there are lots of ways to grieve. Sending you much love. xoAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08288935120774241198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-30160183062021494162014-12-18T08:18:08.327+13:002014-12-18T08:18:08.327+13:00the whole world loves YOUthe whole world loves YOUlisahttp://www.thecword-compassion.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-38943800293764497412014-12-18T07:03:45.549+13:002014-12-18T07:03:45.549+13:00I am so sorry my sweet friend. Grieve until you&#...I am so sorry my sweet friend. Grieve until you're finished...as long as it takes. Also, know you are loved.<br /><br />SherrySoberMomWriteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04845259535764391849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-87331204683471741542014-12-18T02:35:09.752+13:002014-12-18T02:35:09.752+13:00So sorry. Thinking of you.
As a side note, I L...So sorry. Thinking of you. <br /><br />As a side note, I LOVED listening to you on the bubble hour :)TheMadnessStopsNowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00927344425812729009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-3755369767837850792014-12-18T02:13:38.183+13:002014-12-18T02:13:38.183+13:00I am so sorry for your loss Mrs D xxI am so sorry for your loss Mrs D xxAngiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07553400229726508527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-20861452646545882272014-12-17T23:12:20.052+13:002014-12-17T23:12:20.052+13:00So sorry that this has happened right on Christmas...So sorry that this has happened right on Christmas Lotta, and I'm very sorry for your loss. One thing I am complely sure of is the comfort your family will feel to have you with them to help them through the really hard stuff, and then to be all together on Christmas day, remembering him. I don't know how you do it, but you will be their strength. God bless you all xoPrudencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14296042437400909930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-65232882913658552732014-12-17T22:50:00.874+13:002014-12-17T22:50:00.874+13:00Oh Lotta. Many condolences for your loss. I hope i...Oh Lotta. Many condolences for your loss. I hope it does not sound twee, but the indicator of a life very well lived is that you are greatly loved, and your step father was clearly greatly loved. Love to you all at this difficult time. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-56761912907900383182014-12-17T22:49:02.008+13:002014-12-17T22:49:02.008+13:00So sorry to read this Mrs D. Keep in mind there...So sorry to read this Mrs D. Keep in mind there's no cultural mandate on how to grieve, it is completely raw and instinctual and takes as long as it takes. I drank (numbed myself out) through a shattering bereavement years before I got sober and then had to start the real grieving when I sobered up. Mary LAhttp://louisey.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-50713080681022658402014-12-17T22:16:14.049+13:002014-12-17T22:16:14.049+13:00So sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts. S...So sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts. S.D.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-921119446130836418.post-23989523934738723202014-12-17T21:48:04.516+13:002014-12-17T21:48:04.516+13:00Much love to you xx JoeyMuch love to you xx JoeyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com